Why Failure is Important For Success

How many people do you know who won't go out and try anything because they're scared of failing? If I had to guess, I'm sure you know quite a few. I do too. It's not uncommon to fear failure. Nobody wants to fall flat on their face and look stupid. But what you have to understand is that success is impossible without failure. The sooner you can start viewing failure the right way, the sooner you can turn these losses into major wins.

SUCCESS IS IMPOSSIBLE WITHOUT FAILURE

If you truly want to be successful, you have to learn to start seeing failure for what it actually is. There are far too many misconceptions around failure. The biggest one being that failure is avoidable. I hate to be the one to break it to you, but here it is: Nobody, and I mean LITERALLY NOBODY, has a clear-cut path to the top of the mountain that's free of struggle, failure, or adversity. The problem is, we don't see the failures in other people. We don't look at famous people and wonder how many times they've screwed up to get where they are. We don't look at successful business people and wonder how many times they've failed before they finally achieved any success. But the reality is, everyone you see who's "made it" has undergone a massive amount of failure to get where they're at now. That's because success isn't possible without failure. So assuming that you're somehow going to go out and win on your first try without taking any missteps is extremely naive and arrogant. This mindset is actually insulting. Why? Well, because you're telling everyone who's been through the process that you're better than having to deal with the failures. Take a step back into reality and understand that failure is quite literally a necessary component to becoming successful.

FAILURE IS THE GREATEST TEACHER

Do you know what's equally as important as knowing what to do? Knowing what not to do. This is exactly what failure teaches us. By gaining an understanding of what not to do, failure helps guide us in the direction of what we should be doing to win. In fact, this is something we learn at a very young age. We learn that our failures aren't the end-all be-all; they are actually the guardrails which keep us on track toward eventually winning. Think about a baby that's just learning how to walk. Do you think they give it a try, fall over, and then decide they're just going to crawl for the rest of their life? Of course not. They fail repeatedly until they eventually get it right. This is literally the ultimate lesson you can learn in life, and you learn it before you even know how to speak a sentence. So how is it that we forget how important failure actually is? How is it that we forget that failure is actually meant to help us? How is it that we forget that failure is a necessary component to becoming successful? I believe that the fear of failure is something that is forcibly instilled in us by society as we get older. But if you want to succeed in life, here's how you need to be looking at failure.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS AN INVESTMENT IN YOUR EDUCATION

Like I said earlier, failure is the greatest teacher. So instead of thinking about failure as this bad thing you want to avoid at all costs, start recognizing the upside to failure. You're going to learn what not to do, and learning what not to do is equally as important as learning what to do when it comes to success.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS A MOMENT

Far too many people sink their own ship by dwelling on their past failures.  

Don't fall into the same trap. You have to realize that failure is a definitive moment that you have to move past. Extract the lesson and keep moving. That's what champions do. Recognize that your failures are low points that you can build from, not the nail in the coffin.

LOOK AT FAILURES AS UNAVOIDABLE

No matter what you do, you will never be able to avoid failure. The sooner you can come to accept the fact that you're going to fall on your face ten thousand times, the quicker you'll be able to get right back up and keep moving. Failure is an inherent part of the journey towards success. It is the stepping stone that propels you forward, providing valuable lessons and experiences along the way.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS PART OF THE EQUATION

Trying to create success without failure is like trying to bake a cake without sugar, butter, eggs, or an oven. It's simply not possible. Start thinking of failure as a necessary step you have to take in order to be successful. It's going to be much easier for you to pick up and move on when you do. Embrace failure as an integral part of the equation, a vital component of your growth and development.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS A SOURCE OF MOTIVATION

Failure can be a powerful source of motivation. When you experience setbacks and face obstacles, it can ignite a fire within you to prove yourself and overcome the challenges. Use failure as fuel to drive your determination and passion. Let it inspire you to work harder, learn more, and strive for greatness. Instead of allowing failure to discourage you, channel that energy into a renewed sense of purpose and a relentless pursuit of your goals.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS RESILIENCE TRAINING

Failure builds resilience. It toughens you up and prepares you to face future challenges with greater strength and resilience. Each time you encounter failure and find the courage to persevere, you develop a stronger mindset and the ability to bounce back from adversity. Embrace failure as an opportunity to cultivate your resilience muscle. The more you fail and rise again, the more resilient and adaptable you become, equipping you to navigate the ups and downs of life with greater ease.

LOOK AT FAILURE AS A PATHWAY TO SUCCESS

Some of the most successful individuals in history have experienced numerous failures before achieving their goals. Failure is often a necessary stepping stone on the path to success. It provides invaluable lessons, insights, and experiences that shape your journey and contribute to your ultimate triumph. Embrace failure as a companion on your road to success, knowing that each setback brings you one step closer to your desired outcome.

FAILING IS NOT FAILURE

Every failure is an opportunity to guide you toward the right decisions, actions, and approach you need to be successful. The sooner you recognize these opportunities in your failures, the sooner you can turn these losses into major wins. Start thinking about failure differently, and you will start to see just how much it serves you. Keep the same attitude about failure, and not only will you make your life intentionally more difficult, but you will also never attain true success.

Always remember this: Failing is not failure. Quitting is failure. Failure is an inevitable part of the journey, and it is through perseverance, resilience, and the ability to learn from setbacks that you can ultimately achieve success. Embrace failure as a valuable teacher, an investment in your education, and an essential stepping stone on the path to your goals.

So, the next time you feel the fear of failure creeping in, remind yourself of the countless successful individuals who have experienced failure on their road to success. Embrace failure, learn from it, and let it propel you forward towards your ultimate achievements.

  Every Single One of Us Goes Through Dark Times, They come and go like storms. Even though nobody likes going through these dark times, they do serve a purpose. I know for me, and for a lot of other highly successful people, these hard times were actually the times that made me. That's because through the struggle, pain, and lessons these hard times bring... you are given the opportunity to learn and grow. More often than not, going through these tough times can leave us feeling like we're starting over in life.

If you're reading this, it's probably because you feel like you're starting over in life as well. You may be wondering, "How can I start over in life and still find success?" Here's what you need to know: you are never truly "starting over."

The first thing you need to understand is this: you are never actually "starting over." You aren't dying and being reincarnated. So start by ditching the mindset that you are somehow "starting over." You aren't. Now, the reason you feel like you're "starting over" can be for various reasons. It could be because you've lost the momentum you once had, you're starting at square one in a new career, or because of changes to your health or environment that set you back. But no matter what the reason may be, as long as you have the experiences, lessons, and skills that you've built over the course of your life, you're never truly starting over.

But let's say you're in a position where you're starting a new venture or trying to rebuild and strengthen the momentum or positive habits you've fallen out of. What are the actionable steps you can take when it feels like you're starting from square one? The truth is, it can look different for everyone. For the most part though, there are a few things you can focus on to start building momentum and moving in the right direction. Here are 5 things you should focus on if you're starting over in life:

1. Take Care of Your Mind & Body

 Your mind and body are two tools that you use every single day to build the life you want. If you're starting over in life, prioritize getting your mind and body in the best shape possible. It would be extremely naive to think you can become successful or make significant progress in life without these two tools in peak condition. Taking care of yourself means putting in real effort, commitment, and discomfort. Eat foods that are good for you, exercise consistently, put good information in your brain, and challenge yourself physically and mentally. Building yourself into someone you're proud of means overcoming challenges and struggling. Set yourself up for success by turning your mind and body into deadly weapons.

2. Set Massive Goals & Believe

 Most people settle for less than what they truly want in life because they're too scared to dream big enough. Setting massive goals requires massive action. Believe in your ability to accomplish your biggest goals. Shoot for the moon, and even if you miss, you'll still land amongst the stars. Pursue a life that's far greater than your wildest dreams. The worst that can happen is you fall short and still end up with an incredible life.

3. Focus on Your Personal Development

 Take time every day to work on your mindset, skill set, and knowledge. Listen to podcasts, read books, learn new skills, and invest in your personal development. The perspective and information you gain from these activities can have a major impact on the trajectory of your life. Even reading just 10 pages a day can make a significant difference in your knowledge and growth.

4. Cultivate Your Discipline

  If you're starting over in the sense of building good habits and positive momentum, discipline is crucial. Discipline is the single most important skill you need to become successful in life. It’s what will help you execute on the things you need to get done, including when you don’t feel like doing them. Everyone can show up and execute when they feel like it, Very few can show up and execute when they don’t. That’s where discipline makes a difference. Make sure you keep the promises you make to yourself. Execute on those promises consistently and the result will be a more disciplined and gritty version of yourself. If you’re not sure where to start … the best way you can start developing your discipline is through a coach like myself which will help you build discipline along with mental toughness, confidence, grit, fortitude, self-worth, self-belief, and much more. Trust me when I say there is no better way to gain momentum, especially if you're starting over in life. 

5. Strive to Make an Impact 

 If you're starting over, and you want to be successful, strive to make an impact in the world. That means aligning your life's purpose with something that will have a positive impact on people. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people, and companies, that don't care about you or me at all... only themselves and their bottom line. However, by focusing on making a positive difference, you can stand out and get ahead in life.

More and more people are aligning their spending habits and placing their trust in the brands and individuals who stand for the right things. They want to support those who are making a genuine effort to contribute positively to society. By striving to make an impact, you not only enhance your own success but also become part of a greater movement toward creating a better world.

Whether it's through your career, volunteering, or starting your own venture, find a way to make a meaningful impact. Use your skills, knowledge, and resources to uplift others and leave a lasting legacy. When you align your goals with the well-being of others, you tap into a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment.

TAKE ACTION

Whether this was the information you wanted to hear or not, it's the truth. Starting over in life is not going to be easy for you. It's not easy for any of us. Don't stew over it. The best thing you can do immediately to start feeling better and making progress is simply by taking action on these points.

Now is the time to take control of your life and embrace the opportunities that come with starting over. You have the power to redefine your path and create a future that is aligned with your desires and aspirations. It won't happen overnight, and it will require effort, resilience, and perseverance. But remember, even the greatest achievements start with a single step.

Do it or don't! I can't force you to do one thing or another. But I promise you this, if you apply my recommendations and stay consistent, in no time at all, you'll be much further down the road than you ever thought possible. Embrace the challenges, learn from the setbacks, and keep moving forward. You have the strength within you to overcome any obstacles and emerge stronger and wiser.

Every single one of us goes through dark times, but it is in those moments that we have the opportunity to discover our true potential. Embrace the journey, believe in yourself, and never forget that you are never truly starting over as long as you carry the lessons and experiences that have shaped you. Your future is waiting, and it's up to you to make it extraordinary.